I listened to the Jeremy Vine prog today 31/08/11 and was moved by some of the comments which were so much like mine.I lost Silvia within 45 minutes which obviously left me shattered. I too didn't want anything after this.In the fourteen years I have been without her it has never even entered my mind to think of or need another relationship.She was always the woman I wanted and lucky enough to marry.I love her now as much as I ever did and she gave me alove that would last me for three life times.